KINK & BDSM

If you’re just getting into Shibari (Japanese rope tying), there are a few things you should know… It takes lots of time and practice (you’ll …

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Yes, this is a day to show your pets some extra love and care. But what about human pets? The wonderful puppies, kitties, ponies, and …

  If you like drooling, inserting things into the mouth, and/or a variety in your gag collection, O rings for you! Here are some quick …

If you’re curious about ball stretching, here are ten examples spread all across the spectrum – from things that make your boys hang low to …

Even with things like penis pumps or jelqing, it might still surprise some people that ball stretching is a common enough practice among men. Here’s …

Dental Fetish – a subset of the larger “medical fetish”. However, I found a problem when you look up this term – it’s mostly porn, …

Discover the key aspects of BDSM aftercare in our guide. Learn how to nurture and support your partner post-play, ensuring a safe and enriching BDSM …

Pet Play (also known as animal play) is a kind of role play where the submissive enters a behavioral or mental state of the animal …

We’re not talking about BDSM in romance novels, no. We’re talking about the romantic BDSM that can be done in the bedroom. “But, romantic?!” you …

“How can we maintain our Master/Mistress and submissive relationship if we are apart?” I’ve heard this question more than a few times – either from …

Last week, we took a peek at using heat during temperature play. Today, we will look at the flip side – COLD (the different methods …

When the weather turns cold, the snow starts to pile up, and the blankets just aren’t enough, try adding some extra heat to the bedroom …

Today’s exploration takes us deep into the world of size and consumption – into the world of VORE fetish. What is vore, you ask? AKA …

Realistic sex dolls, even at their cheapest, are a huge investment. So, before you even think about pulling out your credit card, make sure you’re …

This little piggy went to market. This little piggy went home. This other piggy loved sucking on toes. You might think it’s weird, but aside …

It’s time to lie down, close your eyes, and get ready to be helpless, because today we are talking about the basics of BDSM Vacuum …

You’re either here because you’re curious about vampire play and need reassurance you’re not weird, or you’re super confused as to why people are into …

It doesn’t have to be Halloween, and you don’t have to be a 24/7 goth fan, in order to enjoy some kinky Nosferatu-themed sexcapades. Why? …

If you’ve played around in kink or BDSM for some time, maybe your idea bank is running dry. Or you could be on the other …

If you’re interested in floggers but aren’t sure what your first one should be, understanding their materials is a good place to start. The best …

WHY DO WOMEN USE THEM? The clit pump works on the same concept as the male versions. It’s a device that is placed over the …

While “bondage” is the all-inclusive term for tying someone up, we can break it down into sub-categories; things like cock and ball, feet, suspension etc. …

Maybe you have a new BDSM space. Perhaps you want to give an existing one a facelift? Either way, making your kink space something that …

Before I came into my sexual awareness, I was fascinated with storms – thunderstorms, in particular. I wanted them more than a sunny day, more …

It’s time to take a peek at yet another interesting fetish. Get your cakes and syrups ready, take off your clothes, and prepare to get …

Discover what should (and shouldn’t) be in a beginner BDSM kit. Learn how to build your own with safe, fun, and easy-to-use tools for exciting …

Explore the world of BDSM trampling with insights on techniques, safety, and emotional connections. Perfect for anyone curious or looking to deepen their understanding.

Love BDSM humiliation but running low on ideas? Here is an extensive list to inspire you. From clothes to food to app-controlled sex toys!

The concept of collars is common enough as an accessory (ask any fashionista, trend enthusiast, or goth girl/boy). You probably also imagine puppies on leashes. …

Katie Perry in latex. Image via Pinterest Latex clothing might be a staple of dominatrixes and kinksters, but the material is slowly gaining ground in …

We’re not talking about the scary metal undies we associate with medieval times. Instead, we’re going to take a look at what a modern chastity …

Welcome to chastity games! Whether you’re a long-time teaser/wearer or just starting out, safety this article has some fun ideas you can add while the …

A male chastity cage might sound like something from a medieval story, but it’s become a modern way for couples to explore new dynamics in …

Welcome, my kinksters! Today we’ll be looking at the metal monsters that have haunted history and modern versions that some BDSM practitioners adore – the female …

Image by Robert Mapplethorpe Leather – probably one of the most iconic BDSM materials. And, whether chaps, harnesses, or sexy accessories, real leather isn’t going …

Tail plugs – they’re butt plugs but far more fashionable and fabulous! If you’re curious or passionate about this fuzzy accessory, you’ve come to the …

In BDSM, there are vampire gloves, floggers, canes, and other things that will inflict some pain and/or pleasure. But did you know you can find …

No, it’s not something you do to salads or stir-fries. It’s something far more … intimate … and torturous. “Figging” is the practice of inserting …

You’ve landed on this page because you’re curious about this kink (or at least want to understand why some people do it). WHAT IS IT? …

If you know anything about Japan, you know it has the innate gift of churning out really weird stuff– with anime being near or at …

    Sensory deprivation, aka sensory play, isn’t as intimidating as it sounds.   As long as it involves taking away at least one of …

If you’re into serious bondage or other aspects of BDSM, perhaps it’s time to think about a dedicated space to play – AKA a BDSM …

Pleasurable sensations to the nipples are processed in the same area of the brain as vaginal or clitoral pleasure. And, while we go out and splurge …

If you’re interested in trying rope bondage, there are plenty of things you’ll need to learn beforehand – things like anatomy, knots, and safety, etc. …

There are WAY more than 101 kinks and fetishes out there, but let’s look at some of them – for curiosity, for fun … for …

If you’re interested in Japanese bondage but have zero idea what it’s about, you’re in the right place. We’re going to look at some brief …

It’s not Halloween, it’s bondage time! Yep, today we are covering the basics of gimps masks aka. Bondage hoods. If you’ve found yourself on this …

Discover the world of tickle fetish, with tips for beginners to advanced techniques, and learn how it can enhance intimacy and connection in your relationships.

Sex furniture can be anything from a simple foam triangle to an elaborate contraption that looks like it should be in a dungeon. The bad …

Welcome to our ultimate guide on writing a BDSM contract! Whether you’re new to the world of kink, or an experienced enthusiast, this insanely detailed …

Curious about buying a sex swing but have no idea where to start?  No worries, we’ll get you set straight. In this article, we’ll go …

If you’re thinking about the CSI episode or the Vanity Fair article (where it’s just a bunch of perverts in costume looking to get off), …

Ball gags are a fun yet simple additions to your sex-chest. But, before you go shopping, let’s look at everything you need to know to …

Want something for a special day (or a regular one) that says more than, “I bought this at the local gas station”? If your partner …

Punishment is a very powerful word. It evokes the dread we felt when we were younger and our parents caught us doing something wrong or …

Discover Your BDSM Role Your BDSM Role Is: Role play is not just a way for couples to spice things up or rejuvenate their sex …

“Disgusting … but I can’t stop watching.” These are a solid 90% of the reactions to most pimple popping, blackhead removing, cyst cutting, and ingrown …

Note: This article has been updated. Hentai Terms will be a new article soon. Hey there, fellow curious minds! Today, brace yourselves because we’re diving …

If you’ve ever browsed an adult store and felt your jaw drop at the price tags, you’re not alone. But here’s the good news: you …

The minute you type “sex doll” into a browser or Amazon (aside from deleting your search history immediately afterward) you’ll have a galactic-sized avalanche of …

If one were actually to plug in the words “What is flogging”  into Google, you would find a trail-mix of different results – ranging from …

With any BDSM activity, a safe word is a MUST.  For those of you who are new to the game, a safe word is something …

Note: This article has been updated. We’re diving into the world of kinky erotic BDSM adult-only sexy sex hotels and resorts, a realm where the …

Discover the world of love hotels in Japan, where discreet check-ins and luxurious amenities await. Get tips on booking, understanding cultural nuances, and maximizing your …

If you’re going to get into any sort of BDSM or general kink (anything from a simple blindfold to full-on leather, whips, and chains), it’s …

I would have to say that restraints are in my top three BDSM kinks. That doesn’t mean, however, I love all restraints. Anything that bends …

You’re probably here because you’ve come across the term S&M and it freaks you out … but not enough to run away. There might even …

Going from the lips of an angel to the mouth of a sailor isn’t something that comes naturally to everyone. But is the ability to …

For those of you who were brought up in a time or household where switches, belts, and wooden spoons were a common form of punishment, …

Adult x-rated parties can be intimidating events. But this simple sex party tips guide will help you navigate the steamy waters so you can sit …