Before you ask if this is code for some other kind of sexual act – like something you would find on urban-dictionary.com – I can tell you that it very much is exactly what the fetish says…
You sit on cake.
Well, you don’t have to SIT per se.
Cake sitting is a subcategory of “sploshing” (which focuses on the tactile and sexual nature of interacting with food) which is a sub-sub-category of WAM = Wet And Messy (which I’m sure you can figure out by yourself).
You’re probably wondering, “Why cake?”
Well … why not?
For some people who love this kink, they say that it’s the feel of the cake and icing against their skin as well as the sweetness.
I bet you’re still wondering … Why cake?!
LOL.
To get a handle on why some people are into WAM, maybe we can draw some parallels to common(ish) situations…
COMMON COMPARISONS
- Men who love to watch women mud/oil wrestle
- Licking chocolate sauce off a lover’s body
- Liking the feel of moisturizer as you lather it on
- Enjoying the sensation of massage oil
- Porn/RL where the person is smeared with semen
INNOCENT COMPARISONS
- We love to play in the mud
- When we’re younger, we love to smoosh our food
- Giggling when we get into fights with paints
Many of us, at some point in our lives, have felt a pleasant connection to a substance on our bodies. It doesn’t mean it was sexual, but we can still see that there’s not a huge jump to sploshing.
Also …
Some people have made mad cash going online and doing this stuff.
There can be side effects if someone isn’t careful – mostly yeast infections from sugar contact. But if someone is careful it can be avoided.
So, the next time you buy a cupcake, why not smear a little on your finger and ask your partner to lick it off – you’ll be one step closer to this delicious fetish
Favorite kind of cake? But do you love it enough to sit on it?
