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We know that you’ve heard of edging, the technique where you bring yourself (or a partner) close to climax, but have you ever heard of anal edging? Chances are you didn’t, and you’re missing out on an amazing pleasure experience!
If you’re fortunate to have heard of this technique, well, stick around because we’re diving deep (pun intended) into expert tips and tricks that might surprise you.
Edging vs Anal Edging: What’s the Difference?
Before we get into the matter at hand, we should first clarify just exactly what we’re talking about:
- Traditional edging can be defined as bringing yourself (or your partner(s)) close to climax, then stopping or slowing down before they finally orgasm. This is often repeated several times before release
- Anal edging is the same, except this involves anal stimulation rather than relying solely on genital stimulation
- For men (or those AMAB), this often targets prostate stimulation, bringing them to the edge of prostate orgasm
- For women (or those AFAB), this can involve indirect G-spot stimulation or pleasurable nerve stimulation around the anal area
The key difference? Well, both techniques aim to build gradual sexual tension for an explosive orgasm at the end. However, anal edging focuses on a different erogenous zone with unique sensations and requires specific techniques to rock your socks off.
Before Getting Started with Anal Edging
Proper preparation is key to exploring anally and can make a huge difference between being uncomfortable and mind-blowing pleasure. We’ve put together a short list of things we think you need to know:
Proper Hygiene is Key
Usually, most people may feel a bit skeptical about anal play and how clean it can be. In this case, we’d suggest a shower before play, but if you’d like to take it a step further, you can douche with a small amount of water. Remember that anxiety kills pleasure, so do what makes you comfortable.
Curate Your Mood
Creating a relaxed environment is key for getting out of your head and truly enjoying anal play. Any tension or lingering worries you might have can make penetration uncomfortable or even painful. Dim lighting, comfortable temperature, and perhaps some background music can help set the scene.
Lube, Lube, Lube (Did We Say Lube?)
You cannot have enough lube when it comes to anal play. Unlike other erogenous zones, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate (unfortunately). Always use plenty of lube and when you think that you’ve used enough, we suggest applying some more. Silicone-based lubes last longer, but unfortunately can’t be used with most silicone toys. Water-based lubes, especiallyLovense’s natrual water based lube jelly is a safe bet with all toy materials but may need more frequent reapplication.
Start Slow
Patience is key, especially when it comes to enjoyable anal play. Begin by gently stimulating the rim of your anus before even considering penetation. Your body needs time to relax and adjust.
What Can I Use to Edge?
Would a carpenter show up to work with no tools? Then we think you should also have the right equipment when edging anally. We put together some options to consider:
Vibrating Anal Plugs
A vibrating anal plug is perfect for the not so experienced and those who have conquered anal play. The plug’s tapered design allows for comfortable insertion, while the flared base ensures safety, preventing it from getting stuck inside. The vibration patterns can be used strategically for edging – increase intensity as you approach the edge, then dial it back.
Lovense’s Hush 2 puts the control in your hands as you can create customizable vibration patterns using the Lovense Remote app, making this toy ideal for solo or partner play. Its extended battery life also means your edging session won’t be cut short.
Vibrating Anal Beads
For those who enjoy varied vibrations, vibrating anal beads provide gradual intensity that’s perfect for edging. Insert one bead at a time, allowing your body to adjust before proceeding.
Lovense Ridge offers incremental sizing with each bead, creating distinct pressure points that can be used to build pleasure gradually. Its flexible design conforms to your body’s natural curves for maximum comfort.
Adjustable Prostate Massagers
For men or those with prostates, a prostate massager can target that specific sweet spot.
Lovense’s Edge 2 features an adjustable design that can be customized to fit your unique anatomy, ensuring your prostate gets all the love it deserves. Its dual motors provide vibration both internally and externally, perfect for bringing you right to the edge before backing off.
Versatile Vibrating Wands
Don’t underestimate the power of external stimulation! A powerful wand like the Domi 2 can be used around the anal opening to create incredible sensations without penetration. This is especially good for beginners or those who don’t like penetration.
Anal Edging 101: Four Scenarios to Try
Now that you know what anal edging is, and we’ve recommended our favorite toys, now’s the time to put theory into pratice. Let’s explore four different scenarios for anal edging that you can try alone or with a partner.
Solo Exploration: Get to Know Yourself
Find a time when you won’t be interrupted, and set aside at least 30 minutes for this. Begin by getting comfortable on your bed, with pillows positioned behind your head and under your buttocks/knees for support.
Apply a generous amount of lube to both your fingers and your anus. Start with gentle circles around the opening, paying attention to what feels good. When you feel relaxed, try inserting just the tip of your finger.
Focus on your breathing, remember slow, deep breaths help relax the muscles. As you become more comfortable, insert your finger further, or switch to a small vibrating plug like the Hush 2.
Once inserted, turn the vibrations to the lowest setting by using the Remote App. As you feel pleasure building, increase the intensity gradually. When you start feeling close to orgasm, immediately decrease the intensity or turn it off completely. Wait 30-60 seconds, then begin again.
Repeat this pattern 3-5 times before finally allowing yourself to climax.
Partner Play: Taking Control
This scenario works beautifully when one partner wants to take the reins of the other’s pleasure. The receiving partner should lie comfortably on their stomach with pillows under their hips.
The giving partner starts with a sensual massage, gradually working toward the lower back and buttocks. Using lubricated fingers, they can begin teasing the receiver’s anus with light touches.
Communication is essential here, establish a system where the receiving partner can indicate when they’re approaching the edge. This could be a word, gesture, or simply “I’m close.”
When using a toy like the Edge 2, the giving partner has the advantage of using the app to help control the toy. They can increase vibration intensity as they observe their partner’s responses, then back off when they signal they’re close.
The power dynamic of having someone else control your pleasure adds an exciting psychological element to the edging experience. Try edging your partner 4-6 times before allowing release.
Mutual Pleasure: Simultaneous Edging
For couples who both enjoy anal play, simultaneous edging can create an incredible shared experience. Position yourselves where you can stimulate each other while still maintaining comfort, a variation of the 69 position should do well.
Using matching toys like the Ridge vibrating beads for both partners creates a synchronized experience. Start by inserting the first bead for each other, then gradually progress as comfort allows.
Take turns controlling each other’s toy intensity through the app. When one person approaches the edge, they reduce the intensity of their partner’s toy slightly, creating a delicious push and pull of pleasure.
The shared vulnerability and the visual of watching your partner’s pleasure builds incredible intimacy. After 3-4 edges, allow yourselves to climax together or in sequence while maintaining the anal stimulation.
Advanced Play: The Full-Body Experience
For those comfortable with anal play and looking to intensify the experience, combining anal edging with other forms of stimulation creates mind-blowing sensations.
Begin with the Hush 2 vibrating plug inserted and on a low setting. Add clitoral or penile stimulation with hands or additional toys like the Domi 2 wand. The key is to create competing pleasure points that build off each other.
When you feel close to orgasm from the combined stimulation, turn off all toys simultaneously. Focus on deep breathing while the sensation subsides slightly, then restart with low intensity on all fronts.
This creates a full-body edging experience where multiple erogenous zones are brought to the brink together. After 2-3 edges like this, allow yourself a final release with all toys on your preferred settings for a potentially life-changing orgasm.
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Benefits of Anal Edging
Beyond the obvious pleasure, anal edging offers several physical and psychological benefits worth mentioning:
Physical Benefits
- Increased blood flow to the genital region, which can enhance sensitivity
- Stronger pelvic floor muscles from the rhythmic contractions during stimulation
- More intense orgasms due to the extended arousal period
- Potential prostate health benefits for those with a prostate
- Greater bodily awareness and understanding of your unique pleasure responses
Mental and Emotional Benefits
- Improved patience and self-control through the practice of delayed gratification
- Enhanced body confidence as you become more comfortable with your anatomy
- Deeper connection with partners through the vulnerability and communication required
- Reduced performance anxiety as the focus shifts from orgasm to the journey
- Mindfulness practice through the intense focus on bodily sensations
Post-Edging: Cleaning Your Toys
After an intense session, proper toy cleaning is essential for both hygiene and longevity of your favorite toys.
Immediate Care
As soon as you’re finished, rinse your toy with warm water to remove any lubricant and bodily fluids. For non-electronic toys, you can use mild antibacterial soap.
Deep Cleaning
For a more thorough cleaning:
- Use a specialized toy cleaner spray designed for sex toys
- Allow the cleaner to sit on the surface for 30-60 seconds
- Rinse thoroughly with warm water
- Pat dry with a lint-free cloth
- Allow to air dry completely before storing
Storage Tips
Never store different materials touching each other, as some can react chemically. Keep your toys in individual cloth bags or the original packaging in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
Anal Edging Conclusions
Anal edging can be one of the most intense, yet rewarding ways of exploring your pleasure whether alone or with a partner.
Remember that the journey matters just as much as the destination. The practice of bringing yourself or a partner to the edge repeatedly builds not just physical pleasure but also patience, communication, and bodily awareness.
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