50 Suggestions for International Day of Happiness – Sex Edition

There’s an International Day of Happiness – which is great in and of itself. But, that got me thinking about people’s sexual “happiness”. Do we really spend enough time taking care of our sensual selves? Probably not.

So, regardless of what month it is, or what concept is being celebrated, here are some ideas for you to give your sex life some TLC.

SEXUAL PAMPERING & HAPPINESS

These range anywhere from light-hearted to serious.

1. Have a long bout of steamy, all day sex with your partner
2. Spend a few hours masturbating and indulging in as many orgasms as you can
3. Watch your favorite porn
4. Spend time with your favorite sex toy(s)
5. Read an erotic novel
6. Read erotic poetry
7. Write something dirty
8. Have your partner focus on oral sex
9. Have your partner expect no orgasm in return for your pleasure
10. Get a massage (romantic, erotic, whatever)
11. Try something new with your lover
12. Find ways to spice things up in the bedroom
13. Play an erotic board game
14. Experiment with aphrodisiacs
15. Re-teach your partner how to please you
16. Wear sexy lingerie YOU like
17. Have two (or more) people pleasure you
18. Share a fantasy
19. Try to enact the fantasy
20. Try something kinky you’ve never done before
21. Discuss any sex problems or fears with your partner that you’ve been avoiding
22. Go to a sex therapist
23. Go to a regular therapist
24. Cut back on booze
25. Get your partner to share all the reasons they think you’re sexy
26. Both people work to improve the relationship
27. Find ways to improve communication
28. Work on your trust levels
29. Improve your sexual creativity
30. Reconnect with foreplay
31. Learn to love your body
32. Don’t focus on orgasms, focus on connecting
33. Get tested
34. Visit a doctor
35. Eat right
36. Be active and exercise regularly
37. Do Kegel exercises
38. Learn to manage stress
39. Have a date night or quality time together
40. Check your hormone levels
41. Find ways to be alone together
42. Be honest about your compatibility with your partner
43. Try different kinds of sex (eg. tantric etc.)
44. Explore a sex position book
45. Try a swingers, kinky, sex party
46. Be patient and forgiving with any drops in your sex drive
47. Kiss and cuddle longer
48. Work on sexual atmosphere/mood
49. Hot bath with a glass of wine
50. Understand quality vs quantity

There are obviously WAY more, but this is a great start.

Also, if you want other useful articles, you might like these…

• How to Spice Up Your Sex Life – 100 Ways to Rekindle The Spark
• How to Give a Massage – Romantic Touch and Erotic Endings
• 18+ Tips on How to Masturbate – A Self Pleasure Guide for Women

What about you? How do you maintain sexual happiness? Share in the comments!