When we think of back to school most people leave out a few important groups – university and college students, older people going back to school, as well as parents who finally have a quiet house for a few hours. So, in this article, we’re going to take a different look at the chaos that surrounds September. The focus will be on 18 and over back-to-school sex toys and sexual health tips as well as other things of-age people can have or do.
We’ll take a look at discreet sex toys that your dorm mates won’t recognize. Or, if you don’t care about hiding things, powerful sex toys that you can use to have quick orgasms if you don’t have a lot of time to spare. Plus other tips and FAQs that you might find useful.
It’s a different look at not only higher education but also empowering parents to use a little bit of their extra free time to nurture themselves. Let’s get going.
Table of contents
- Discreet Sex Toys for Back to Schook University Students
- What Kind of Discreet Sex Toys Are Out There?
- How to Clean Your Sex Toys & Care for Them
- Sexual Health Tips for College Students
- Other Things to Care for Your Mind, Body, and Libido
- FAQs for 18 and Over Back to School Students
- Final Thoughts on 18+ Back to School
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Discreet Sex Toys for Back to Schook University Students
Whether you’re sharing a house or living on campus chances are you’re going to be in close proximity to other people. Or you could still be living at home (and if you’re lucky enough, rent-free – to which I’d be totally jealous). Then again, you could be a parent who doesn’t want younger eyes finding your pleasure devices. And you could even be an adult going back to school who just wants a discreet sex toy. No matter what, there are a lot of choices out there.
But there are some things that you should consider before buying one:
Look at your budget – There is a wide price range and it’s often a “you get what you pay for” scenario, I mean there are decent toys for a reasonable price. I say this because there will already be back-to-school investments and some people might be strapped for cash.
Do your research – This is the next stage. Once you have your budget now you can go online and look at what’s available. All you have to do is search for “discreet sex toys” in your search engine and start comparing.
Read reviews on Decibels – this goes without saying, however, particular attention to what people say about noise levels. Discreet sex toys often focus on external design. Meaning people won’t recognize them as something that will make you squeal. But when you turn it on, if the motor is too loud, the discrete part goes out the window.
Decide your pleasure – Do you need the toy to have variety, do you need quick orgasms, how about powerful toys versus gentler ones?
What Kind of Discreet Sex Toys Are Out There?
Common ones include bullet vibrators that look like lipstick or external shapes that make it look like something else (like a rubber ducky etc.) I’ve even seen one disguised as a razor but the end of the handle was a vibrator and the razor end wasn’t actually sharp. There are vibrators or dildos that are sleek and can be kept in your side table. The list is endless.
Here are some suggestions you might enjoy:
Lovense Exomoon
Lovense Exomoon is an app-controlled lipstick bullet vibrator. It has three steady strength levels (low/med/high) and 10 patterns. However, this toy is programmable, which means you can change the patterns to whatever you want plus you can reprogram the low medium, and high settings to whatever strengths you prefer. All this can be done through the Lovense Remote App.
Crave Vesper
Crave Vesper is a high-end bullet vibrator (only for those who have money to burn). But the price is understandable because this can actually be worn as a necklace. And unless people are familiar with the brand no one will know. It has excellent reviews for its pinpoint pleasure.
Tenga Geo Coral
Tenga Geo collection is a different kind of textured male stroker. They make some excellent male stimulator sleeves. And are probably most famous for their disposable “egg sleeves” but their Geo trio looks more like an art piece. Guys could literally put this on their nightstand and no one would know what it is.
Lovense Max 2
Lovense Max 2 might be stretching the ” discreet” part in the discreet male sex toys category a little bit, but for any guy who really wants a good masturbator this one is a decent choice because the outer casing looks more like a thermos than a sex toy. Max 2 is great because not only are there vibrations but also contractions. And it’s one of the toys that can long-distance sync with a few other Lovense products. So if you’re in a long-distance relationship this is an excellent choice
Screaming O
Screaming O makes some fun vibrators that look like makeup products – and not just lipstick casings. One looks like lip balm and another like a mascara wand. The only way someone’s going to figure this out is if they’re really borrowing things they shouldn’t!
Satisfyer Pro Traveler
Satisfyer Pro Traveler is a smaller version of the well-known big-sister that took the world by storm, but the casing of this one is quite clever. And it’s a toy that will deliver a great orgasm but won’t break the bank.
Cute Little F*ckers Princette Puppypus
Cute Little F*ckers Princette Puppypus will either entice you or the name will make you run for the hills. But I beg you to stay. If you love anal play and butt plugs this one wins the category of “cutest discrete sex toy.” and anyone who’s rummaging around where they’re not supposed to be will have no idea what they’ve come across.
Lovense Hyphy
Lovense Hyphy is a 2-in1 sex toy, with the small end being a high-frequency tip for the clit and nipples (including 3 silicone attachments for different sensations). The other end is a vibrator. Since it’s a Lovense product, you know it will be powerful and programmable. And, from personal experience, it’s the toy that is always in my nightstand.
How to Clean Your Sex Toys & Care for Them
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I have an entire article about this, and you can read it here if you want all the details, but the gist of sex toy maintenance is simple. Wash your sex toys before and after each use. Make sure they are dried completely before you put them away. Store them in a cool dry place, preferably in a container or a baggie (if the company hasn’t provided you with one already within the packaging).
Also, if it’s a battery-operated toy, take the batteries out when you’re not using it. This not only helps the batteries last longer but will protect the toy if the batteries degrade. If it’s a rechargeable sex toy, it needs to be juiced up every 6 months if you’re not using it. I like to do it every 3 months just to be safe
Sexual Health Tips for College Students
- Don’t Share Toys: Non-porous sex toys are best because they won’t hold on to bacteria or viruses. However, aside from regular cleaning and care, it’s a good idea to never share you sex toys with other people.
- Practice Safe Sex: Always use condoms or other barrier methods to protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unwanted pregnancies. There are also stories going around about putting condoms over sex toys. But I always advise to err on the side of caution and adhere to the point mentioned above.
- Get Regular Check-ups: Schedule regular visits to a healthcare professional for STI screenings, contraceptive consultations, and general sexual health assessments.
- Consensual Consent: Obtain clear and enthusiastic consent from your partner(s) before engaging in any sexual activity. Respect each other’s boundaries at all times. This includes the use of sex toys.
- Know Your Birth Control Options: Educate yourself about different contraceptive methods and choose one that suits your needs. Consult with a healthcare professional to help you make an informed decision.
- Alcohol and Drugs: Be cautious of the effects of alcohol and drugs on your judgment and decision-making abilities. These substances can impair your ability to make safe choices regarding sex.
Other Things to Care for Your Mind, Body, and Libido
We’ve covered the major points of sexual health – like STI testing and consent. But there are other aspects that people don’t talk about or even know.
- Whether you’re a university student starting off with a new partner or you’re a parent trying to use a little bit of your newfound peace and quiet to connect intimately, communication is key.
- You’re going to hear this over and over again when it comes to anything sex-related. Talk to your partner about what you want and need. Or if it’s just you, believe it or not, some people need to have an honest conversation with themselves about their sexual needs.
- Find ways to reduce stress, because the chemicals that flood your system when you’re under pressure will often lower or kill your libido. This could be cramming for uni exams or juggling things at home.
- Make sure you get healthy sleep and this isn’t about how many hours. This is about quality and if you find you’re not getting a good amount of rest, you should seek professional help. Because it can have long-term negative effects.
- Eat well and stay active. I know everyone’s sick of hearing this but it really does help with your mind and your body.
- If you’re having problems in your sex life (with another person or just with yourself) it’s okay to seek professional help. There is zero shame in it. It’s even better if you can find a qualified therapist who specializes in sexual health.
FAQs for 18 and Over Back to School Students
Sex toy cleaner is useful as well as a decent water-based lube. I highly recommend Sliquid H2O because it checks all the boxes of what a good Lube should have and be. Wet wipes are also handy. And wet wipes never hurt. Just make sure they are there fragrance-free and ph balanced. And why not invest in a set of earplugs in case other people decide to get freaky.
Obviously cleaning your toys is important. The first thing you can do is get most of it off with some wet wipes. Then, put them in your shower caddy with a cloth over top. All you have to do is take it into the shower with you and you’ll have all the privacy you need. Another hack is to take a shampoo or body wash container that is empty and use it as a discreet container to transport your toy.
See if you and your roommate schedules leave for some private time – at least enough to get in a quickie. Perhaps get a room divider? Or you can do it in the shower. 39% of people have admitted to rubbing one out inside a bathroom stall but that might be icky for some people.
If all else fails, get a white noise machine ” to help you sleep” and quietly do things under the covers. Maybe you’re lucky enough to have an understanding roommate and you can negotiate ” quiet time” for each of you and the other person can just not be there.
Masturbation sleeves won’t make any noise. Neither will regular dildos. If it’s a vibrator, internal is better – like a love egg (which is inside you) because it will muffle a lot of the noise. The vibrators are good because they’re nestled in there as well. Bonus points if it comes with a remote or is app controlled. This means there’s less movement on your part – if you are someone who wants to be really discreet.
Sadly we can’t always choose who we’re rooming with. Or if you’re a parent there can be nosy eyes everywhere. Bedside tables are often the go-to, place that’s not obvious. However if your roommate doesn’t understand boundaries, then you can get a lockbox or put it in an opaque container. You can put the toy in a ziplock bag (to keep it sanitary) and put it in one of those fake books. There’s a bunch of ideas online. All you have to do is observe your roommate for a while and figure out something they would never look in.
Final Thoughts on 18+ Back to School
So a quick overview of some of the major points. Communication is key, partner or roommate. There are creative ways to be discreet, even if you are around people that don’t respect your privacy. And remember, if they cross boundaries, we’re back to the communication part where you tell them to cut that crap out.
It never hurts to have somewhat of a sex toy bag available (sort of back to school supplies for adults) with handy things like lube and wipes. Physical and mental health aren’t just important in general but they are linked to your libido. It’s important that college students practice safe sex and everything that comes with it.
Parents don’t have to neglect their own sexual needs and carve out some personal time with each other or solo.
And finally, there are countless discreet sex toys out there for you to choose from. So you can still engage in knee buckling orgasms.
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