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It’s time to be honest… Threesomes have gotten extremely popular in the past couple of years, and for good reason! Not only do they offer exciting new dynamics, more ways to experience pleasure, and scenarios that simply can’t be replicated during one-on-one encounters. One specific type – MMF bi threesome – has been increasingly popular (especially with spicy content).
It’s a particularly enticing option for many couples and singles looking to explore. While we may assume that three bodies together provide enough stimulation (and they certainly can), bringing sex toys into the mix can elevate your experience.
Two Guys, One Girl—Sounds HOT!
Formally speaking, an MMF bi threesome usually involves two men and one woman, with both of the men being comfortable engaging with each other sexually, as well as the woman.
We’re wondering why this arrangement has become so popular in the past couple of years (no complaints), so we thought to break down some of the potential benefits:
- Heightened pleasure potential for all involved
- Exploration of sexual fluidity in a supportive, open environment
- Breaking taboos that can be liberating
- New roles and dynamics that can’t be experienced with only 2 people
- Greater intimacy and trust are built through shared vulnerability
- Fulfillment of common fantasies that many people secretly hide
Research shows that MMF play is much more common than you’d think. In a 2018 study, about 20% of women had already experienced an MMF threesome, while 37% expressed an active desire to try one. Even better news? The vast majority who’ve taken the plunge report thoroughly enjoying the experience.
Add Sex Toys For Pleasure
Introducing toys into your MMF fantasy is more than a good idea, as they can heighten your already high levels of satisfaction. Here’s a quick guide to which toys work best in different MMF scenarios:
| Toy Type | Benefits in MMF Play | Best For |
| Prostate Massagers | Hands-free pleasure for men, leaving hands available for partners | Men interested in experiencing prostate stimulation while engaging with partners |
| Vibrating Cock Rings | Enhanced erections, vibrations for female partner during penetration | Men who want longer-lasting erections and women who enjoy clitoral stimulation |
| Butt Plugs | Preparation for anal play, sustained fullness sensation | Anyone interested in anal stimulation or preparing for penetration |
| Nipple Toys | Added stimulation to sensitive areas often overlooked | All partners who enjoy nipple stimulation |
| Remote-Controlled Vibrators/Dildos | Allows the third partner to control stimulation | Perfect for creating power dynamics and ensuring everyone stays involved |
| Double-Ended Dildos | Simultaneous penetration possibilities | Two receptive partners who want to experience connection together |
The key here is to find toys that complement, rather than compete with human touch.
Safety First—Things to Consider
Before getting into the nitty gritty, we think that there are several important things you should consider to ensure everyone not only has a good time, but a safe one as well.
Communication is non-negotiable. Before any clothes come off, all three participants should have an honest conversation about:
- Boundaries and hard limits that shouldn’t be crossed
- STI status and protection methods (remember, always use barriers when sharing toys)
- Safe words or signals if anyone needs to pause or stop
- Specific desires and fantasies each person hopes to explore
Preparation matters significantly. This includes:
- Clean and sanitized toys ready for use
- Plenty of high-quality lube appropriate for your toys (we’d suggest our Lovense water-based lube, which is safe for all toys)
- Fresh batteries or fully charged rechargeable toys
- Private, comfortable space where everyone feels secure
Aftercare isn’t optional. MMF threesomes can involve vulnerable experiences for everyone involved. Plan to:
- Prioritize cuddling and reconnecting after
- Check in with all partners about their experience
- Address any unexpected feelings that might arise
- Discuss what worked well and what you might want to try next time
Remember that consent is ongoing and key throughout the experience. Anyone should feel comfortable expressing if something isn’t working for them, and those boundaries should be respected.
Let Lovense Help You
At Lovense, we think that our high-quality toys can elevate your multi-partner play experience. As such, we put together a list of some of our favorite MMF bi threesome sex toys.
Edge 2
Our Edge 2 stands out as the ultimate adjustable prostate massager for MMF encounters. Boasting 2 motors which deliver powerful vibrations to both the prostate and perinium, its adjustable design fits perfectly to your body.
During MMF play, one male partner can wear Edge 2 while engaging with others, experiencing hands-free prostate stimulation that can lead to mind-blowing dual orgasms.
Diamo
Our vibrating penis ring, Diamo serves double duty by both making erections better for him and stimulating her clit during penetration. Its unique shape allows for flexible positioning, making it perfect for the dynamic multi-partner play.
One male partner can wear Diamo while penetrating either partner, ensuring sustained performance and added pleasure.
Gemini
For nipple enthusiasts, Gemini vibrating nipple clamps add intense sensation to often-neglected erogenous zones. During an MMF encounter, one partner can control the clamps’ intensity via the Lovense Remote while the others focus on different areas, creating a beautifully orchestrated sensory experience.
Hush 2
The Hush 2 vibrating butt plug provides sustained fullness and vibration that’s perfect for preparing for anal play or enhancing other activities. We suggest that the male partner wear Hush 2 while receiving a blow job.
Lush 4
For the female partner, the Lush 4 egg vibrator sits perfectly against the g-spot while leaving room for penetration, creating incredible dual stimulation opportunities. Imagine the female partner experiencing Lush 4’s deep vibrations while engaged in oral play with one partner and manual stimulation from another.
Domi 2
The powerful Domi 2 wand vibrator provides intense external stimulation that can be incorporated into countless threesome configurations. One partner can use Domi 2 to stimulate the female partner’s clitoris during penetration or to tease the sensitive areas of either male partner.
Gush 2
Finally, the Gush 2 penis massager delivers targeted vibrations to the most sensitive areas of the penis, perfect for intensifying oral stimulation or as preparation for other activities. During an MMF encounter, one partner can control Gush 2 via Lovense Remote while the wearer engages with the third partner.
MMF Bi Threesome Tips & Tricks
Long Distance MMF Play—Sync Across Miles
Unfortunately, not all threesome partners can be in the same location at the same time. When distance separates you, connect your Lush 4 and Edge 2 through the Lovense app.
The female partner can control her partner’s Edge 2 remotely while he controls her Lush 4, creating an intimate connection despite the physical distance. The third partner can join via video chat in Lovense Remote, directing the action or simply enjoying the show.
The Hands-Free Fantasy
Create a scenario where one male partner wears the Edge 2 while receiving a blowie from the female partner, who simultaneously wears the Lush 4 while the second male partner stimulates her clit simultaneous. With prostate and g-spot stimulation happening automatically, everyone’s hands are free to explore other erogenous zones.
Public Prelude Play
Build anticipation hours before your encounter by having one male partner wear the Edge 2, another the Hush 2, and the female partner the Gemini on a dinner date. Each person holds the control for someone else’s toy, creating a delicious power dynamic and heightening desire long before you get home.
The Triple Sync
For an intense culmination, synchronize the Edge 2, Lush 4, and Diamo to the same vibration pattern. As all three partners engage in their preferred configuration, the matching rhythms create a unified experience where everyone feels connected through the same sensation patterns.
The Rotating Focus
Take turns being the center of attention, with each person getting 15 minutes of focused pleasure. When it’s the male partner’s turn, combine the Gush 2 with manual stimulation from one partner and kissing from another. For the female partner, pair the Domi 2 with oral attention from one partner while the other kisses and caresses her upper body.
Three’s Company—How MMF Threesomes Can Benefit You
Beyond the obvious, multi-partner play can have surprising benefits on your overall wellbeing and relationships.
For many men, participating in an MMF threesome provides a safe space to explore bisexual curiosity without all the BS (mainly societal pressure).
For couples inviting a third, the experience can strengthen trust and communication. Successfully navigating the emotions and logistics of a threesome requires honest conversation that often carries over into other aspects of the relationship.
Many participants report a significant boost in sexual confidence after positive threesome experiences. There’s something pretty good about knowing that you can satisfy more than one person at a time.
For polyamorous groups, MMF threesomes can help establish deeper connections between all members of the throuple, creating balanced intimacy that doesn’t center exclusively on one relationship.
Perhaps most importantly, these experiences often help people break free from restrictive sexual norms that may have limited their pleasure potential. By challenging traditional monogamous and heteronormative assumptions, participants often discover new aspects of their desires.
MMF Bi Threesome FAQs
Q: Won’t someone feel left out during an MMF threesome?
A: Not really. Once everyone pays thoughtful attention to each partner, and with the right toys, everyone can stay engaged. The beauty of toys like the Edge 2 or Lush 4 is that they provide stimulation even when hands and mouths are occupied elsewhere.
Q: How do we avoid awkwardness afterward?
A: As we said before, clear communication before, during, and after is key. Discuss expectations ahead of time, check in during play, and make time for aftercare conversation when you’re done.
Q: What if one male partner isn’t comfortable with male-male contact?
A: Then that would be an MFM threesome instead of an MMF bi threesome. Be extremely clear about your expectations when discussing boundaries.
Q: Can sex toys help if someone has performance anxiety?
A: Absolutely! Toys like the Diamo can help maintain erections, while options like the Edge 2 or Domi 2 provide alternative pleasure methods if traditional penetration isn’t working out.
Q: How do we clean toys between partners?
A: Ideally, use dedicated toys for each person. If sharing is necessary, cover toys with new condoms between partners or clean thoroughly with toy cleaner.
Q: What if someone wants to stop in the middle?
A: Respect that immediately. Establish a safe word beforehand and honor it without question if used. Remember that enthusiastic consent from all parties should be ongoing.
MMF Bi Threesome Conclusions
MMF bi threesomes are something that should be celebrated (and honestly done more). By incorporating high-quality toys like an adjustable prostate massager, you can ensure that everyone involved experiences maximum pleasure while maintaining inclusion and connection throughout.
Ready to elevate your threesome experience to extraordinary heights? Explore our collection of premium pleasure products specifically designed for multi-partner play.
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