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Curious about the world of forced orgasms? This guide offers plenty of tips, consent essentials, and techniques for an unforgettable experience

Welcome to my blog post, where we delve into the world of hentai terms. In this article, we’re going to look at the true meaning …

Technology has brought us a long way from outdated video games – and even sex toys. Now we can fuse the two and have an …

Have you ever heard of extreme edging? If you’re into BDSM or looking to spice up your sex life, you might want to look into …

Today we’re looking at Karryn’s Prison – an RPG eroge game from the developer and publisher Remtairy. We’ll go over the general storyline, what you …

HEAT is an interactive adult VR game that Lovense has recently partnered with. But what makes this game so unique compared to the many games …

Ever wondered how a little extra stimulation could change things up? Vibrating nipple clamps offer a mix of pressure and vibration that brings something different …

Have you wanted to dip your toes into the deep oceans of BDSM, but weren’t sure where to start? Well, learning how to use nipple …

Now, considering we strive for no shame and general acceptance of all-things-sex on this blog, it’s important to note that when we say “weirdest porn” …

You might think that adoring high heels (or having a high heel fetish) is only something that men do all I have to say is …

Do you love high heels? Maybe you adore them to the point it makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside? Well, whether you’re a …

Discover Breeders of the Nephelym with our guide and tips. Learn about Lovense toy integration, breeding, and leveling up your gameplay!

Before you ask if this is code for some other kind of sexual act – like something you would find on urban-dictionary.com – I can …

Most people, kinky or not, have probably heard about the Japanese vending machines that sell used panties and such. Then, there are the porn-pay sites …

There’s been cake sitting and pudding sloshing. Next is bread smushing! Even though there’s no real sexual content in this girl’s social media, there have …

You would think that doing naughty things in “public” would just mean in a sex club, however, one couple ends up banned for public BDSM …

It was in 2018 that the story of “Tank Hafertepen” broke the BDSM (and even vanilla) internet. But not for good reasons. The gist of …

For us kinksters out there, puppy play might not seem like a big deal. However, we have to remember a few important things, lest we …

For one day a year, 13 blocks of San Fransisco explodes with leather and all things kinky. It’s a summer celebration of BDSM, leather culture, …

First time going to this famous fair? Here are some Folsom Street Fair dos and donts to follow so you have all the fun but …

The Folsom Street Fair is a BDSM event held during September in San Francisco. It started in 1984 and is now one of California’s largest …

You don’t HAVE TO be into a kinky lifestyle to have a birthday party with a bit of spice. Here are some basic things you …

Yes, cupping looks painful, but so can many BDSM play when you look at it! Let’s dive into this ancient health practice that’s been adopted …

Twitter / WolfyBound Even after all these years of writing and existing the crazy world of sex toys and adult products, I still find myself …

Image by Espressolia from Pixabay  The one thing I’ve noticed in my years of going to kink parties is how new attendees (people who have never gone to …

Image by Espressolia from Pixabay  First, I want to premise that when I say “your BDSM journey”, it doesn’t need to involve whips and leather. It can be …

Gerd Altmann from Pixabay  I’ve talked a lot about safe words – after all, they are critical to any BDSM play. But what if you’re gagged or …

Image by Paul Brennan from Pixabay  Straight from the dedicated employees who work miles in the sky …. here are reasons they say that the mile high club …

Image by Юрий Сидоренко from Pixabay  Want to get into kitty play but don’t know what BDSM cat toys and accessories are out there to enhance your scene? …

WHAT IS SOUNDING? In the medical sense, sounding is the practice of inserting a stainless steel rod into any passage of the body to probe …

The act of inserting a metal rod up your pee hole can be terrifying for some people. For others, it can be incredibly intimate and …

We looked at part one of FetLife Tips! Now, here’s Fetlife Tips Part 2! SPEAK UP TO SHAME I’m an “avoid the drama” sort of …

Kinky shoes and boots are a staple of any fetish wardrobe, but bondage ballet boots are one of the trickier pairs to wrap your head/feet …

This is a question I hear a lot – it’s also one that I’ve had personal bumps in hookups or relationships as a result of …

Smoking fetish, also called capnolagnia, is where someone finds sexual gratification in watching someone smoke (or smoking themselves). There’s also the undeniable parallel to a …

Have you ever felt like there should be a place where you can share your desires openly—especially in something as personal as BDSM dating—without feeling …

Welcome! Today we are looking at another set of terms in our “let’s clear up these BDSM ideas” series – it’s not really called that, …

Today we are looking at another BDSM term and clearing up some misconceptions and bringing to light interesting details… Femdom This term simply means Female …

I’ve been on the kick lately of looking at BDSM terminology – mostly because it can be confusing to some people, especially those new to …

A queening chair might sound fancy, but they’re really just a smart and comfortable way to enjoy intimacy. Whether you’re exploring new ways to connect …

​​​​First, I’m going to add the disclaimer that this particular fetish might seem very alluring, but there’s far more than meets the eye – take …

WHAT IS EDGING? Simply put, it’s stopping right at the cusp or “edge” of an orgasm and not letting yourself climax. Then, you allow your …

I started my Shibari journey a couple of years ago but only got into it seriously in the past year. Even after all the seminars, …

Fetish masks and hoods are easy ways to add more variety to your BDSM/kink closet. They are also available in a huge variety of materials …

If you’re not in the male to female transformation circles, or you’ve been living under a rock and have never heard of Rue Paul’s Drag …

This is a short but “sweet” article. Something brief but pervy enough to wet your kinky whistle… So, if you’re asking “what is metal bondage?” …

Vaping after sex (or even during) shouldn’t be a surprise – after all, it’s been the cliché to light up a stick during post-coital bliss. …

The wooden ones you use to hang your laundry with … yes, those. There are also plastic ones, metal, big, tiny (like for scrapbooking), decorative, …

There’s plenty to discuss around the topic of BDSM vs Abuse. However, the core difference revolves around one simple idea – consent… Yes, Mr. X …

Curious about sissification but not sure where to start? You’re not alone. Many people are interested in exploring this unique experience, but figuring out what …

Kinky play doesn’t need to be hardcore BDSM, leather, whips, and restraints. It can be gentle, romantic, and teasing. This is where feather ticklers come into …

​​​​​​It’s time to learn about the toys that will make your nipples tingle, throb, and ache.  Here’s a quick beginner’s guide to get you started …

A beginner’s guide to the BDSM St. Andrew’s Cross. Learn key safety tips, history, DIY options, and more!

Mummification bondage can be an exhilarating experience for both the Dom and the sub. However, it’s also a risky kink. Here’s a detailed guide on …

BDSM paddles are often found in most beginner kink kits – but these are the dime-a-dozen ones. There’s SO much out there; different materials, styles, …

The key to a successful, safe, and comfortable is preparation. Here are ten things that will help you navigate your pre-scene hours so you can …

I had written an article on latex vacuum beds before – and I’ve wanted one ever since. However, nearly every model’s price tag made me …

​​​First, let me add the disclaimer that this was NOT free (like some other reviews). I paid for this one myself because my other harness …

Anal hooks can be fun, but they’re not for those just starting out. This simple, beginner-friendly guide will teach you everything you need to know, …

image via waterbondage.com The idea of being held underwater or pinned down in the bathtub can be terrifying for some people. For others, it can …

If you like pain, sensory play, or the tingling that comes with light (or hard) scratching, Wartenberg wheels are something you definitely need to explore. …

Morilla There are hundreds of fetishes, so I wouldn’t blame you if Forniphilia hasn’t made it on your radar yet. It is, however, more common …

Primal fetish isn’t your typical kink. It’s raw, instinctual, and completely focused on letting go of societal expectations and embracing the wild, untamed parts of …

Bondage tape isn’t exactly well-known, but it’s one of the most versatile tools in beginner-friendly BDSM. Unlike regular tape, it leaves no sticky residue, doesn’t …

I like Velcro bondage products because they’re great for beginners, strong for bondage yet easy to take off, and way more affordable than leather or …

I was looking online to buy a straitjacket (also sometimes spelled straight jacket) for some of my own BDSM play. If you have money, it’s …

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Yes, this is a day to show your pets some extra love and care. But what about human pets? The wonderful puppies, kitties, ponies, and …

If you’re curious about ball stretching, here are ten examples spread all across the spectrum – from things that make your boys hang low to …

Even with things like penis pumps or jelqing, it might still surprise some people that ball stretching is a common enough practice among men. Here’s …

Discover the key aspects of BDSM aftercare in our guide. Learn how to nurture and support your partner post-play, ensuring a safe and enriching BDSM …

Pet Play (also known as animal play) is a kind of role play where the submissive enters a behavioral or mental state of the animal …

“How can we maintain our Master/Mistress and submissive relationship if we are apart?” I’ve heard this question more than a few times – either from …

Last week, we took a peek at using heat during temperature play. Today, we will look at the flip side – COLD (the different methods …

When the weather turns cold, the snow starts to pile up, and the blankets just aren’t enough, try adding some extra heat to the bedroom …

Today’s exploration takes us deep into the world of size and consumption – into the world of VORE fetish. What is vore, you ask? AKA …

This little piggy went to market. This little piggy went home. This other piggy loved sucking on toes. You might think it’s weird, but aside …

It’s time to lie down, close your eyes, and get ready to be helpless, because today we are talking about the basics of BDSM Vacuum …

You’re either here because you’re curious about vampire play and need reassurance you’re not weird, or you’re super confused as to why people are into …

It doesn’t have to be Halloween, and you don’t have to be a 24/7 goth fan, in order to enjoy some kinky Nosferatu-themed sexcapades. Why? …