Hey there, all you saucy texters! Today, we’re diving into the tantalizing realm of sexting games. Yes, you heard me right – we’re talking about ways to turn up the heat on those steamy conversations that make your heart race and your palms sweat.
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, looking to spice things up with your partner, or just having some fun with someone new, sexting games are a yummy way to fill your tummy with butterflies and lose plenty of sleep (in a great way).
This collection has a mix of familiar games that can be turned R-rated, a few naughty ones that just need to be put into text form, and some new and fun ones that were definitely made for the mobile era.
Plus a section for anyone adventurous out there – how to integrate app-controlled sex toys into the mix!
1. Picture Strip Tease
This is a series of photos that show you with less and less clothing. But don’t think of it like one image with the shirt on and another with it gone. No, it needs to be wonderfully teasing. A few buttons here and a bit more skin there. Erotic photos aren’t just about the hottest body parts. Things like suggestive fingers or even how the light hits your neck could be yummy.
By the time you have even one piece of clothing gone, your partner should be a quivering, drooling mess. That being said, don’t fall into the perfectionist trap – thinking that all images need to be Instagram-perfect. It’s meant to be fun, not bring you down!
2. Good, Ol’ Fashioned Role-Playing
Teacher and naughty student or be a police officer during questioning etc. It can either be a power exchange or just excitement and seduction. However, it’s not something to be forced into the conversation. It should flow naturally. If you’re at a loss for ideas, “Confessions to a Priest” is an easy place to start.
And the fact that it’s over text is also good if you’re nervous about getting into this kind of sexy play.
3. Masturbation Race
On this one, the sexting mostly takes place before the actual “game” – mostly because once you start playing with yourself it’s mighty hard to get at that keypad. Once, you’re both hot and bothered, have your self-pleasure race and see who finishes first. There can be prizes for the winner or consequences for the runner-up. And no faking!
4. Fuck, Marry, Kill / Date, Do, Dump
If you haven’t heard of this game before, it’s easy. Choose three people under whatever criteria you want, and the other person has to choose which of them they will fuck, marry, and kill. Extra points for stating why.
There is always the chance this might upset some people. So, choose three contestants that have zero personal connections. It’s even better if you can have some giggles (it’s beautifully bonding). Sexting doesn’t always have to be serious.
5. Would You Rather?
A simple but fun hypothetical game (especially if you elaborate). Go kinky, dirty, or romantic – it doesn’t matter as long as it’s hot. Here are some fun examples…
- Would you rather only have very loud sex OR totally silent sex?
- Would you rather lick ice cream off someone’s body or whipped cream?
- Would you rather be the plus one in a couple’s threesome OR have a threesome with your significant other, and bring in a third?
- Would you rather have sex in a dressing room or a shower?
6. Tandem Stories
Write a hot sentence to start off a story and have your partner add one, and so on, and so forth until you have a steamy, DIY erotica. You don’t need to be a stellar storyteller or write like Shakespeare. Think of this sexting game as flowing thought making it to the screen – something to tease, tantalize, and eventually make the other person whimper. Who knows, you could end up writing an entire book together!
7. What Do You Do Next?
Evolving from a tandem story, this game takes on elements of a “choose your own adventure” or dungeons and dragons campaign. Situations can be spontaneous or planned out ahead of time. For some reason, it conjures images of this Big Bang Theory clip…
8. Truth or Dare
Yeah, we all know this one. It can be a fun yet sexy way to get to know someone better. But if you’re playing with a close partner, they might know most of your dark secrets and some intense shenanigans could unfurl (not saying that’s a bad thing). It could be altered into a “Dare and Dare” sexting game too.
9. Never Have I Ever
You can learn new, sordid tidbits about someone or use them as a catalyst for other activities, such as stripping, pictures, or future sexy favors. It’s quite possible as a pure sexting game. But obviously, video works better.
10. Sexy 20 Questions
Straightforward and fun. It can be sexual positions, body parts, fantasies, etc. For example, it could be something like your first animation crush or which celebrity have you lusted after the longest.
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11. Do As I Say For a Day
For those who enjoy domination. One person can order their partner to do all sorts of naughty things. How hardcore you get is up to you, just make sure everyone is comfortable. However, since this is power play, make sure you have a conversation about limits and understand any aftercare conversations that need to take place after (even more so if things get intense).
12. Sex Bucket List
Share all the hot, flirty, and freaky fantasies you want to do at some point in your life – everything from simple to elaborate. This is a wonderful way to do some self-exploration as well.
That being said, if you’re not ready for down-and-dirty lists, you don’t have to jump into being R-rated. It could be something as simple as making massage candles and giving someone really good oral. Or which hotel you would have to have a passionate night in? To gamify it further, have your partner guess what would be on your list.
13. Past or Future?
Not necessarily one of the true and blue sexting games, but a fun activity – share sexy/passionate memories from the past. Think of it as a “Remember when…” game. Or plan what you want to do with that person in the future. If it’s that very day, you could be all Dom/Domme about it and give them orders on how to get ready and send pictures of them doing it. E.g. taking a shower.
14. Finish the Sentance
Fill in the blank and get your partner worked up until they beg, blush, or explode. I recommend having a list of ideas ahead of time if you’re worried about on-the-spot creativity. You can always get them to answer when they’re at work or in a place that could make them publically blush 🙂
15. Guess the Body Part
You’ve seen it on other social media – someone takes a photo of a body part and the other person needs to guess what it is. Keep in mind that the whole idea is to be sneaky – like the bend of your knee to appear like cleavage. As far as sexting games go, it’s both hot and hilarious.
16. Sexy Scavenger Hunt
Make a list of fun or dirty things your partner has to snap a picture of within a certain period of time – images should include the person IN the photo. The reward if they complete it? Well, the only limit is your imagination!
17. Sexy Shopping List
Go on Amazon and find the top 10 sexy things you would love to buy (price is no limit). After, share and compare with your partner. A fun variation is making your partner put the list in order from least wanted to most wanted and see if the order syncs up.
18. Guess the Outfit
You know the whole “What are you wearing” thing. Well, this time it has a purpose! This game works best if the other person knows you really well. You can limit how many guesses they have and for each thing they get right, they get a prize – like a sexy pic of you in that piece of clothing.
19. Name the Positions
Find an image of a sex position (it can be from a diagram if you’re shy or from porn if you want to be hardcore) and have the other person guess what the name of the position is OR brainstorm what they would call it (if it doesn’t have a name already, which is probably does … or many names for that matter). You can add extra elements like prizes for guessing right or having a close answer to the person who sent the pic.
20. Emoji Codes
Try to communicate an idea through only icons and see if your partner can decode the message! This one will also make you giggle. And don’t go all easy like “eggplant, peach, water droplets.”
21. X-Rated Mad Libs
There are so many free, digital ones online, you’ll be spoiled for choice! Simply find one that looks interesting and have the other person fill it out. Chances are it will be more giggly than anything, but laughter is fantastic for the mind, body, and soul. And who knows, it might spark inspiration for other games in the list – like roleplay concepts, tandem stories, would you rather, etc.
22. Search History Exchange
Don’t need to take a flame thrower to your browser history? Brave enough to gamify what saucy skeletons lay in your digital closet? The game can be simply a one-for-one exchange, a top 5 most visited (dirty or not), guess what’s on your partner’s list, and even a reward/penalty for other games on this list.
23. Guessing Game – Top 5 Sex Playlist
Yes, you’ll notice there are a lot of “guessing games” when it comes to sexting – but that’s for a good reason. Not only does it have you explore your partner in a deeper way (or get to know someone new) it puts your own mind into a lustful space. And as well all know, the brain is the biggest sex organ.
So, take your top 5 songs you like to get down and dirty with and see if your partner can guess/remember what they are. It can be extra sneaky if you’re someone who doesn’t like music when you’re intimate.
24. Dream Orgy List
Come on, you know you have one. There are also variations of the Dream Orgy that can make this game more than a “one and done” type deal. First, our preferences change over time. So, our imaginary fuck buddies will too. You can craft your dream team based on what you would have loved when you were in your early 20s, what you want now, your dark little secrets, etc.
25. Edge Them On
Obviously, this is mostly an in-private game. Text back and forth with your partner (while one is pleasing themselves). Make sure to communicate when the player is getting close. Then have them stop and roll them back a little bit. Embrace this back and forth for as long as you’re both comfortable. Bonus points for using a sex toy (yes, the long-distance, app-controlled ones mentioned before)
But, did you know you can still “edge” without touching? You can get someone in a lustful headspace and then have them “behave themselves” afterward. This “building of tension” over a few hours (even a couple of days if you’re experienced – or just that horny) can deliver unbelievable fireworks in the end.
26. Two Lies, One Truth
This game is especially great if you’re just starting out with someone and want a fun way to get to know them better. And for anyone who hasn’t played, the premise is simple. Just makeup two believable lies about yourself and one fact that’s actually true. Then, see if the other person can guess the real one. And, in the spirit of the article, we’re definitely going to make this a sexting game, so x-rated is mandatory 😛
27. Treasure Hunt
This is different from a scavenger hunt because instead of having to complete a list of commands, the player is looking for a series of gifts. How many, how expensive, etc. is up to you obviously, or just having a single gift at the end is excellent too. However, don’t make it too easy. Have a series of clues that lead to one another – and for more game-action, your partner could do something, answer questions, or whatever to get the next clue.
This can be a fantastic birthday or anniversary event. Even a long-distance relationship gift!
28. Anything Day Challenge
This one might sound like the Boss for a Day concept, but not really. Take a 24-hour chunk and dedicate it to being devilishly random (or at least stepping outside both your comfort zones). This can include sexts during work, dares while you’re out shopping, or whatever your wonderfully depraved mind can come up with. You can try games from this list, practice your dirty talk, perfect your enticing selfies (no faces), etc.
However (of course there is a “but”) you DO need to agree upon boundaries/concept concepts ahead of time. Eg. if there is a make-or-break meeting on Wednesday, you’re obviously not going to be doing it then. Or if you’re visiting your sick grandma every day at 4-5 pm then yeah, that time slot is off-limits.
29. Me or Porn?
Record yourself moaning (during sex or self-pleasure) and then get a clip of something from a porn scene. Send both clips to your partner and see if they can tell which one is you. Heehee.
30. Single-Line Story
It’s okay if you’re not great with words, but see if you can write a sexy one-sentence story. Or, if you need a more beginner-friendly version, just a single sentence that encapsulates a big, steamy moment. It can be related to who you’re playing sexting games with or just something hot in general.
I found a creepy one, “I’ve been living with the love of my life for 5 years now, I think it’s more than enough time to finally introduce myself.” So, yeah, you can obviously couple it into roleplaying if you want, lol.
Sexting Games – Final Thoughts
These sexting games and activities will give you PLENTY of hours of fun. But remember, you are not obligated to do anything that makes you uncomfortable! Things like this should be fun for both people (or everyone in the group *wink). And as you’ve probably figured out, you can combine a lot of these into mega games.
But more than anything, use these sexting games to get to know someone better, have some sexy giggles, unlock a few things you didn’t know about yourself, maybe even reduce stress, and hopefully have plenty of orgasms along the way.
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Any other sexting games or tips you want to add? Share in the comments!
